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Sex; Marriage and Compatibility Soul Mate Connections Are Not What You Think Written by Scott Petullo
Sometimes people are drawn together like magnets, yet the
compatibility is questionable. Its not smooth sailing to say
the least, and trying to make it permanent is akin to strapping
a 45lb weight to your back for the rest of your life. Might the inability to part ways, the intense draw, be a
mysterious working of fate? Yes. "Soul mate" connections
very often include plenty of strife and heavy lessons,
without the presumed romantic bliss. Based on our comprehensive astrology and numerology
work, two people can absolutely be incompatible, yet they
may stay together for other reasons. Know that person A
might have great overall compatibility with person B, but
not with person C. Varying, unique degrees of intellectual,
emotional, spiritual, physical and sexual compatibility
exist between every couple. Despite a lack of compatibility, some such couples
say no amount of effort is too much to save a
relationship if they are deeply in love. We recommend
looking at what "deeply in love" really means to you.
What exactly do you feel for the person and why? Is there
an early life, dysfunctional dynamic being played out for
either or both of you? Is the connection held together by
guilt due to one or both of you being afraid to walk away?
Exactly how much sacrifice is involved for you or him?
Is it really a great connection, or is it more about what
they do for you or voids they fill for you? Are you afraid
to be alone? Are you concerned about financial security?
You've got to be brutally honest with yourself if you want
clarity. Every person you meet is for a different reason, or reasons.
It's not easy to overrule your heart and be totally objective
in your romantic life, but it will save you heartache. Dating
is easier when you accept each situation for what it is
instead of trying to cast a play (husband or wife role,
provider, etc.). To help you understand more about romantic compatibility,
we'll list some of our findings. We have yet to invalidate
the following considerations through our extensive work
over the years: some romantic connections include
questionable compatibility, but the shared or compatible
timing (long-term or short-term) serves as the foundation
of the draw; some connections are horrible, but the
"unexplainable" draw is intense and serves to help them
fulfill the karmic implications of this particular "soul
mate" connection (one or both "owe" each other in not so
pleasant ways); some people have great life-long love
karma, some people have fair life-long love karma, and
others have terrible life-long love karma; one's personal
timing (long-term and, or short-term), if very good in
relation to love-life, can symbolically, somewhat mitigate
one's life-long challenging love-life karma; one's personal
timing, if very challenging in connection with love, can
symbolically wreck one's love life even if they have great
life-long love karma (as reflected in the patterns in the
comprehensive charts). We feel that a highly compatible match does not need a lot
of "work" or compromise. If you are complete by yourself
and have your life together, finding someone to share it
with should not require you to give up your goals, friends,
hobbies, or what you've worked hard for. At the same time, compatible, harmonious matches that also
share a high degree of sexual chemistry are few and far
between for most people. Some people would rather be with
someone who is semi-compatible, or not compatible at all
instead of being alone. Others are content to be alone and
concentrate on other areas of their life, like career, until they
meet someone they feel is worth sharing their time with. It's
up to you, yet our work tells us that people are largely going
to do what they are predestined to do, so as long as you
remain objective and respond with compassion and
unconditional love, you'll be fine. Copyright © 2007 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo Scott Petullo has been professionally employed as an astrologer, numerologist, and certified handwriting analyst since 1997. He has a Bachelor of Arts degree from the University of Arizona and has been exploring metaphysics since the early 1980's. Scott is a self-taught astrologer and numerologist, and received his Certified Master Graphologist designation from the Institute of Graphological Science in Dallas, Texas. http://www.mystictwins.com
http://www.scottpetullo.com Stephen Petullo has studied metaphysical concepts since the early 1980s and earned a Bachelor of Arts degree from the University of Arizona that includes a minor in psychology. He has been doing consultations and intuitive readings professionally since 1997. He is a Reiki master-teacher, past-life regressionist, natural medium and channel, metaphysical consultant and has published a book and 20 audio recordings.
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